Love & Romance 2
Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person.” Love is not a thing to buy or sell. It’s the true feelings of heart to someone or something. It’s not global for everyone. So, you have to express your love.
Emotions can be scary territory for men, and unfortunately, dating can be a time when many of these can be unleashed in a woman. To make a man fall in love with you, it is essential that you let him see that you are emotionally stable at the beginning of a relationship. If you allow him to feel the full weight of your emotions before he knows you properly, you will frighten him off. When he pulls away which every new man does, stay cool, don’t panic and wait for him to return. If you want to keep him, you must stay in control at all times.
Now that you’re feeling so warmly toward the entire human race, how can you deepen your love for someone? The way God created us, actions affect our feelings most. For example, if you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but giving charity will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to be loving and that means giving.
While most people believe love leads to giving, the truth is exactly the opposite, Giving leads to love.What is giving? When an enthusiastic handyman happily announces to his non- mechanically inclined wife, “Honey, wait till you see what I got you for your birthday,a triple-decker toolbox!” that’s not giving. Neither is a father’s forcing violin lessons on his son because he himself always dreamed of being a virtuoso.
True giving, as Erich Fromm points out, is other-oriented, and requires four elements. The first is care, demonstrating active concern for the recipient’s life and growth. The second is responsibility, responding to his or her expressed and unexpressed needs (particularly, in an adult relationship, emotional needs). The third is respect, “the ability to see a person as he or she is, to be aware of his or her unique individuality,” and, consequently, wanting that person to “grow and unfold as he or she is.”
These three components all depend upon the fourth, knowledge. You can care for, respond to, and respect another only as deeply as you know him or her.
The effect of genuine, other-oriented giving is profound. It allows you into another person’s world and opens you up to perceiving his or her goodness. At the same time, it means investing part of yourself in the other, enabling you to love this person as you love yourself.
Many years ago, I met a woman whom I found very unpleasant. So I decided to try out the “giving leads to love” theory. One day I invited her for dinner. A few days later I offered to help her with a personal problem. On another occasion I read something she’d written and offered feedback and praise. Today we have a warm relationship. The more you give, the more you love. This is why your parents (who’ve given you more than you’ll ever know) undoubtedly love you more than you love them, and you, in turn, will love your own children more than they’ll love you.
Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time ,hhwhich nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife give more and more to each other.
You can show it such as, you are a lover you can give a small or beautiful gift or sent beautiful picture that show love for your partner. Then he or she will happy and love you more. Do you want to such pictures? Then I will say the best way for it. Visit freefbpictures.com